I often receive emails from women who want to know why some men disappear after a few dates. This is a common issue with dating. Μen are not all the same but they have something in common that they share with each other. ‘Where the fun begins and ends.’ The first response I give to women is very simple. Depending on how it begins is proof of how it will end. This is why single and divorced women pay frequent visits to me in order to help them understand and learn from the mistakes that so many of them make when they first meet a man. The best piece of advice I can give to single ladies for now is to be aware to whom and when to say ‘I like you and with what speed. Men are not as stupid as the opposite sex thinks. Simply they have a more developed sense of smell than women. This particular overdeveloped sense is what will determine if he will stay or make the run through the emergency exit.